“I choose me”… How three simple words changed my perspective on life, love, and everything in between

In the whirlwind tapestry of 90s television, Kelly Taylor of Beverly Hills, 90210, voiced a declaration that became the anthem of my formative years: “I choose me.” These words were not just a fleeting moment in a drama series, but a powerful proclamation that I adopted as my own compass.

Torn between two loves, Kelly made the only decision she could. She chose herself!

For years, Kelly found herself caught in a turbulent love triangle, torn between two best friends, Brandon and Dylan. Their fierce contention for her heart mirrored the external pressures many of us face in real life. While the easiest route might have been to select one over the other, Kelly took a bold step. She chose herself, championing personal growth and well-being over societal expectations.

This is an enlightenment so many of us yearn for. All too often, we sideline our needs, drowning in attempts to fit in, woo love interests, or seek external validation. Instead, imagine what could be achieved if we redirected that energy toward nurturing our inner selves.

The transformation begins by recognizing your worth. Understand that you deserve joy, love, and every remarkable thing life has to offer. Vocalize these affirmations, and soon they will solidify, bestowing self-assurance and validation.

Having friends to share the good and the bad helps make the journey worthwhile.

In this journey of self-love, don’t forget to surround yourself with your tribe – those genuine friends and loved ones who champion your dreams, share your highs and lows, and constantly remind you of the magic within you.

But self-love isn’t just about self-affirmation. It’s also about introspection. Dive deep into your soul, and identify your true aspirations – whether they pertain to love, personal growth, or a unique passion. Aligning with your desires is the blueprint to making them a reality.

Granted, prioritizing oneself isn’t a cakewalk. Years of conditioning have made us habitual caregivers, often placing ourselves last in line. But if Kelly’s mantra resonates with anything, it’s the profound act of choosing oneself. “I choose me” isn’t merely a catchphrase. It’s a revolution, a movement toward authentic happiness.

Because, at the end of the day, choosing yourself is the inaugural step in a journey of boundless joy. You, above all, are worth that happiness.

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Arrow Spin-off, ‘Green Arrow and the Canaries,’ Fails to Take Flight

 

Green Arrow and the Canaries, the CW

In a twist that has left Arrowverse fans disheartened, the much-anticipated continuation spin-off, ‘Green Arrow and the Canaries,’ will not make its way to the small screen. Following its eight-season run, the CW’s hit series ‘Arrow’ bid farewell last January, leaving fans eager for the proposed new chapter. Produced by Berlanti Productions and Warner Bros Television, the spin-off garnered buzz at the TCA last fall, courtesy of CW head honcho Mark Pedowitz.

The spin-off was poised to usher in a fresh era of Team Arrow, set in the not-so-distant future. It boasted a cast led by Katherine McNamara, reprising her role as Mia Smoke, the new Green Arrow and daughter of the original emerald-clad hero, Oliver Queen (Stephen Amell). Joining her were fellow Arrowverse veterans Katie Cassidy, who portrayed Earth 2’s Black Canary, and Juliana Harkavy, returning as Dinah Drake, the latest Black Canary.

The news of the spin-off’s inception brought joy to fans, especially following the excitement surrounding its backdoor pilot during Arrow’s final season. Penned by Arrow creators Beth Schwartz, Marc Guggenheim, Jill Blankenship, and Oscar Balderrama, and with Berlanti’s guidance as a producer, the series aimed to chronicle The Canaries’ mission to rescue the future Star City while preserving the fabric of time itself. This spin-off also promised to address lingering questions from its predecessor. However, the show’s cancellation has left many of these queries unanswered.

The female-led endeavor was primed to carry on its predecessor’s legacy, which paved the way for the entire Arrowverse on CW. Now, the mantle of that legacy rests with other Arrowverse standouts such as ‘The Flash,’ ‘Legends of Tomorrow,’ ‘Supergirl,’ ‘Batwoman,’ and the upcoming ‘Superman & Lois.’ ‘Black Lightning,’ another beloved Arrowverse series, will bow out with its final season, and whispers hint at a potential spin-off focusing on the character Painkiller (Jordan Calloway).

Signs that ‘Green Arrow and the Canaries’ faced headwinds surfaced late last year when no significant updates followed the initial announcement. While the network refrained from citing reasons for its decision, the ongoing pandemic might have played a part, much like in the case of various other productions. As fans eagerly anticipate the new seasons of remaining Arrowverse shows, including ‘Batwoman,’ which premieres its second season on January 17, the void left by ‘Green Arrow and the Canaries’ will undoubtedly linger in the hearts of fans.

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Confessions of an 80s Kid Turned Comic Book Geek

Detective Comics #647, DC Comics, 1992

I have been a comic book “geek” for as long as I can remember, long before Tony Stark made it cool to be one. Flashback to that unforgettable moment: spotting Detective Comics #647 on a stand in the grocery store. The main plot? Batman and Robin battling a rather forgettable villain – the Cluemaster. (It’s the first appearance of Stephanie Brown, aka Spoiler, and one-time Robin and Batgirl for those keeping track.) It might not have been the most iconic issue, but it was my gateway into the world of comic books, of which I’ve been a part ever since.

Don’t get me wrong, I was already a committed follower of 80s classics like Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and Thundercats when I came upon what I would argue is one of the greatest comic book movies ever made – Batman Returns. Let’s avoid the infamous “Who wore the Bat-suit best?” debate, but Michael Keaton, you rocked it! This wasn’t just any film; it was my Bat-signal calling me deeper into Gotham’s heart. Sure, I’d been entertained by the 60s Batman series that aired most afternoons on TV, but this movie? It made me run to grab that Detective Comics issue and plunge headfirst into the universe of comic legends.

Oh, the 90s, an era that is both praised and ridiculed by comic fans! The industry had just been rocked by the colossal Image exodus of creators from Marvel Comics, with comics from the newly formed Image Comics fighting for a stronghold within the market. Long-running franchises such as Superman and Batman were at the height of pop-culture relevance because of the heavily marketed Death of Superman and Knightfall storyline, which saw Bruce Wayne’s Batman replaced by a more aggressive young protégé, Azrael, who can almost be seen as a precursor to Nolan’s Dark Knight series. While future blockbusters like The Avengers were far from their past and future heydays, they were still cranking out monthly issues that were breaking new ground and riding the wave of successes throughout the industry. And hey, we all survived the oft-ridiculed Clone Saga storyline from Spiderman. ‘Nuff said!

Cover to The Uncanny X-Men #300, Marvel Comics, 1993

This period wasn’t just about comics; it saw epic cartoons like Batman: The Animated Series and Spider-Man. While my classmates were button-mashing on their video games, I was lost in these illustrated worlds, wondering why more weren’t with me on this visual ride. Being a comic devotee sometimes felt like a solo quest, but what a quest it was!

Then came a game-changer: The X-Men. Spotting the shiny, foil-embossed cover of Uncanny X-Men #300 was like finding my comic soulmate. Unlike Batman’s revenge-driven narrative, these mutants were simply born with gifts that made them different. As a kid starting to realize he was a bit different, I understood what it felt like. Here were characters echoing the faces I saw daily – diverse and dynamic. Their journey resonated deeply with my own feelings of being an outsider, and from that day, it was #TeamX-Men for life.

There’s never an end to the countless stories still to be read.

My journey with the X-Men has been filled with highs (shout out to Claremont and Morrison!) and lows (a side-eye to some of the more questionable arcs – Decimation, anyone?). Though not everyone’s cup of tea, the latest run is a bold vision for the series that seeks to take it to heights it hasn’t seen in a while. And with all the buzz about them joining the Marvel Cinematic Universe, it’s truly an exhilarating time for X-fans like me.It’s funny how I can vividly recall six decades of comic lore, yet often forget which day to take out the trash. Life’s quirks, right? I embrace this quirk as a unique talent. Comics offer an unparalleled tapestry of stories. If you’re hesitant, take the leap! You might discover your own ‘X-Men’ saga along the way!

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Into the Unknown

Have you ever felt so strongly about something that you took a leap of faith, even when the world around you seemed to be saying, “Are you out of your mind?” That’s precisely what I did recently. I quit my job. Yes, smack dab in the middle of a pandemic.

Now, that’s one way to start a conversation, right?

Stepping out into the unknown is both liberating, yet terrifying at the same time.

When I share my story, a flood of questions often come pouring in. Top of the list? “How do you intend to spend this new phase of your life?” I reply, “I plan to write.” Then, the inevitable follow-up, “Couldn’t you write in your spare time?” Of course, many authors juggle full-time careers with their passion for writing. I’ve been doing it for two decades. But given the unpredictable turns of our world, isn’t it high time we chase our dreams beyond our current circumstances?

Rewind a little. Ever since childhood, I’ve been entranced by the magic of storytelling. I was the solitary child with a stack of notebooks, each one filled with my imaginative tales. A dream was budding: I envisioned myself as a published author.

Life, however, had its twists and turns. My ambition of studying in the vibrant writer’s hub of New York City was overshadowed by decisions I made in my younger years. Instead, I found myself in a state school that, though it celebrated the arts, lacked the creative incubation I yearned for.

While many friends thrived in the entertainment industry, my passion lay with the written word. I channeled this passion into creating a web series, Wandering Falls – before web-series were even a thing. But as work commitments grew, my storytelling took a backseat.

Speaking of work, I began my professional journey at fifteen. From restaurants to property management, I’ve tried my hand at a mosaic of jobs. The latest was the most lucrative and demanding. It was also the farthest from my heart’s true calling: writing.

Perhaps the universe was trying to send me a sign. I found myself grappling with health challenges and an underlying sense of unfulfillment. It dawned upon me: while a hefty paycheck might symbolize success for many, it did little to light up my soul.

Throughout my stories, my protagonists have always mirrored my own aspirations. They were writers, dreamers, explorers. Now, I’m eager to align my own story with theirs. It’s my turn to wholly embrace writing.

Sure, leaving a stable job raises eyebrows and evokes concerns. People have cautioned me, celebrated with me, and shared their own hidden desires. With plans up my sleeve, including a new opportunity that resonates with my writer’s heart, I’m excited about this leap.

So here I am, on the precipice of a new beginning. I’m ready to delve deep into my writing projects, maybe even resolve old cliffhangers. Most importantly, I’m ready to breathe and cherish every moment.

For the first time in ages, the horizon looks promising and filled with stories waiting to be penned.

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